Joking about how ~crazy~ you must be for finding a trans woman attractive is transmisogynistic. Joking about needing background checks when you see a pretty girl because of the possibility of them being trans is transmisogynistic. When you use trans women as a punchline, you are contributing to the hatred, discrimination, and violence they are subjected to in today’s society. If you don’t know how to compliment a trans woman’s appearance without making her a punchline, do everyone a favor and keep your goddamn mouth shut.